Families are crazy no mater where you are in the world. A close friend of ours Mother passed away in America.  She was cremated and her ashes were mailed ahead to an Asian country. He then flew there. Upon arriving, he went to the post office and picked up her ashes. Then went over to his aunt’s home. She was not there so he went inside. Then called his aunt and said that he was here and had his Moms ashes with him.  His aunt yelled “WHAT YOU BROUGHT A DEAD PERSON INTO MY HOME!!!!! Get her out of there now!” He laughed and asked “Where should I take her?” The aunt said “Let her wait in the car outside!” LMAO A few days later they put her in a condominium with his Grandparents. I had to ask what is a condominium? He showed me a photo. It was a very nice monument in a graveyard with many small doors to put ashes in. We still laugh about “Waiting in the Car!!!” Family can always make you laugh.